i am so done with the kpop fandom. 

why can't all of us be friends, I mean, what's the point of hating on a group. We should all appreciate the groups' efforts, since they obviously didn't get where they are by a whim. they've worked to reach success. is it that hard to be mindful of what we say, because there's no doubt that these idols know what these netizens be saying. we seem to forget that they're human too, they like being praised, they get hurt when they read comments bashing them behind their back, because im pretty ing sure that none of us are ballsy enough to say it to their faces.

if you dont like their music then you dont like their music, don't hate on the people themselves as well as their fans. don't be insulting. freedom of speech is allowed as long as it doesn't harm others (in america, at least.). that right was granted so that we'd be able to voice our opinions, not so we can abuse this and take a dump on the effort of others.

and if you have a reason as to why a group is lacking in your eyes, leave constructive criticism or something. its the same thing as if your parents slapped you in the face and told you to get better. How the would you be able to achieve that if you give no info on how they can improve? 

the delulu fans are just as irritating. contrary to your belief, your bias isn't the best at everything. they have flaws too, admit it and get the over it. no need to get unbelievably defensive about it. the point of being a fan is to accept their flaws as well as their good points (unless they're total scum).

and i cannot be the only one who's sick of this "if you were a real fan" bull. that's just as stupid as believing ur idols have never dated before.

the fans that have been most prominent for me these days are: exo fans, sones, fx fans (seriously when are we going to be given a damn name its been over four years), vips, blackjacks, and primadonnas. sadly i am in all of these fandoms.

exo fans, for obvious reasons. back when i was an exo anti (for the sake of the fact that i was an sm hater and i assumed they were just pretty faces) i just considered the fandom itself "the funny fandom." i mean, cmon, ive never seen so many inside jokes. and nowadays exo literally rules the kpop macro and gif community. but the sasaengs nowadays are crazy, and there's a large handful of delulus.

sones have mellowed out a lot since a few years ago. since snsd has cemented their spot as the number one girl group (my wonder girls loving heart is crying) they find no need in arguing anymore. theyre sleeping tigers now. they are ok now, but with them and you die.

vip and blackjacks have been annoying me lately. so many delusional fans have appeared suddenly, even though they used to be so friendly and chill for the most part. they have this mentality that their idols are "badass", "different" and all this other stuff, but the truth of the matter is, THEY. ARE. IDOLS. TOO. people seem to be forgetting that lately? (on another note, im legit worried for bom. she's been getting way too many surgeries done, and that is mentally and physically bad for her)

and primadonnas and fx fans. they're way too busy fighting with their respective companies to give a flying about other groups. fx and ftisland are both the least prioritized by their companies, and are treated like the "middle ugly child." like legit, sm and fnc dont give a about them. 

i like primadonnas the most they're really cool and stuff. especially cus ftisland is open about everything (they are known to have dated and sort of be players), there are like no delulus. they even casually say "whats up" on fanboards lke what other fandom can do that

damn. this is why im leaning more onto khiphop these days. 

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