I bet by now almost all of you people might have known about the news of sungmin's marriage. Yes, i am happy for him but i know its hard for some people to handle this. This might have been a huge blow to people. I mean, Sungmin. Who would have expected him to be the first one to  get married? I just wanted to talk about this here cause i have friends who are joyers and they are badly affected by this news and its devastating, I know. But, i can't stand some fans. Editing pictures out, Petitions for our minnie to leave the group. All this just because he decided to get married because he found his significant other? I mean, of course i am in no position to say this since he isn't my bias but as an ELF, who supports the whole group, this really breaks my heart. You can clearly see it. Our whole fandom is tearing apart. International fans and korean fans are bickering with each other. With all this going on, Its hard for SJ to win their most wanted award for the year. THE DAESANG AWARD. 

I really hope people would wake up. Think about other members. Think about sungmin for a minute. I know how he had already done all the things needed way before but, put yourself in his shoes. WORLDWIDE FANS, bunch of Scary fans that would never hesitate to beat your partner up, Reporters who are on your heels waiting to leak news about something that you have been dying to tell but you can't. Why? Cause he knew this would happen. He knew a bunch of fans are gonna leave the fandom and he will be hated on very much. But i won't say its not his fault too. Its just that, ITS NOT ENTIRELY HIS FAULT. People who supported him whole heartedly, I clap my hands for you in awe. You people are awesome. Fansites who closed down due to this, You guys were strong and i thank each and everyone for their beautiful photos. 

And last but not least, Fans who are heart broken, Crying in a corner, let me give you a tight heart other the internet. I know that you need it the most. Cause, Its not easy to deal with things like that easily. :) I am hoping that everyone gets together and help the boys win their most wanted awards and continue to support them in future. Cause, Till to this day it rings in my head the words the hyukjae had said, " I know thats fans have left SJ for newer groups, But people who stayed, thank you very much". 

And, I don't think we guys are the only ones who are crying. I can bet with you, Sungmin is crying to himself, All alone cause he isn't someone who lets out his emotions that easily. Don't worry guys. Time heals. And i hope people found comfort in this post. Cause, Each joyers need a hug and i am more than willing to give one! :) 

His heart whelming message for Us, ELFS. :) 

"To those who have allowed me to be who I am now. Dear E.L.F

Hello, this is Sungmin. Where should I start... I thought about what to say so many times starting with the first sentence. After writing and erasing and repeating this process several times... I'm more reminded of the faces and voices of those I'm thankful towards... and I'm delivering this letter with a heavy and cautious heart.

Everyone, I have met a great person and I will be getting married on December 13.

My heart aches as I think of everyone who must have been very shocked and surprised about the sudden news.

I'm sorry that I made you find out through articles first while I was contemplating how to first deliver the news to E.L.F, who love me and are a dear friend to me, before anyone else...

To be honest, before I delivered this news, there were times that I had to withstand alone as I felt conflicted with the thought of my own decision while thinking of everyone whom I've walked this path with up until now. Rather than it being a fear about the decision I've made, I was more worried about whether everyone that I'm thankful towards would become too shocked or hurt by this news, as it is a situation that they've never gone through before [as a fan]. Although I'm a bit late, I'm gathering the courage to deliver the news myself from all the love and trust you've given me.

I want to say how much I love and feel sincerely thankful towards everyone who has stood by my side like a shadow and watched me grow and cheered me on.

I'm also thankful to everyone who has helped me up until now and the members and the agency who trusted and respected my decision. I will strive to become a Sungmin who continues to work hard in the future to return the love you have shown me."